…what’s supposed to happen will happen… if things don’t go your way, it can be stressful, painful, and hard, but you don’t always have to be in control. It’s all just a part of the grand scheme of things. Don’t let your emotions cloud your vision. Don’t ever fail to see the bigger picture. You may not understand why things are happening the way they are, but soon enough you’ll know.

No matter what your problem is, big or small, it usually entails a portion of your heart getting broken. Sometimes, it’s only a bruise, sometimes it feels like it’s shattered into a million pieces. When dealing with a broken heart, it can be devastating and utterly painful, but sometimes it is just God’s way of calling you back to him, to make you grow as a person, or maybe you have to experience that to pave the way for something much better.

When overcome with hurt and confusion, it’s easy to lose sight of the bigger picture. You tend to focus on the present, and feel the enormity of your problem, you feel like you’ve got the biggest problem in the world, and you feel alone and don’t know what to do. And most often than not, you feel the tendency to take matters into your own hands. You tend to do things and you do everything you can to control the situation. And then when things don’t go according to what you planned, you’ll get frustrated and bitter. You don’t realize, that no matter how you try to control things your way, if it’s not meant to be, it’s not going to happen. If you refuse to accept it and force it, you’re only prolonging the inevitable. You’ll only delay God’s true plan for you… He has a plan for you if only you learn to be open and let go of the things that he wants you to let go of. So, stop manipulating things. A solution that is manipulated will not bring real happiness.

Problems will always be a part of life, and at times when you’re down, when you’re at your lowest point, talk to God. If you ask sincerely, he will enlighten you, clear your confusion, ease your pain, calm your fears, and heal your heart. It’s not going to provide you an instant solution to your problem, but God works in mysterious ways, and as long as you walk with Him, and just trust and believe, the sooner you’ll get to that place where you’ll see everything clearly, and you’ll finally begin to understand. Everything happens for a reason. You may not understand the reason now, but you will when the time is right.

Add comment 5:24 pm» July 25th, 2008

Wahh I’m so relieved now, thanked god :wink:. I wasn’t able to update/do my routine since last friday because of the following.

1. Our internet connection got disconnected since thursday (delayed payment for 1 month, fucken smartbro), and they didn’t reconnect it back until today pfft.
2. I was staying at our house in pacita since friday night til sunday morning. (Got drunk with my cousins)
3. I sorted out the stuffs that my sister and I won’t be needing and might sell it online (some are still new with tag)
4. I’m currently looking for a nice photography class/school since I want to enroll.

I missed blogging, twitting and plurking :(, so how was your weekend guys? I have so many kwentos and will upload the pictures from the overnight swimming on my flickr account. (it’ll be in private so make sure that you will add me on your friend list kk?)

Thanks everyone who dropped by here eventho I wasn’t able to visit your site back yet. I’ll make it up to you mwah.

9 comments 10:14 am» July 22nd, 2008